The Hidden Pressures Student Athletes Face

A lived-experience training on identity, performance, and emotional well-being

Available with English captions and subtitles in Spanish.

Student athletes are often celebrated for their dedication, resilience, and ability to perform under pressure—but many quietly carry emotional burdens that adults around them may not fully recognize.

Cali shares lived-experience insight into student athlete mental health while exploring how pressure, perfectionism, identity, emotional suppression, and fear of failure can affect emotional well-being both on and off the field.

Why This Training Matters

Many student athletes grow up in environments where achievement and performance are deeply tied to identity, self-worth, and external expectations. While athletics can offer meaningful opportunities for growth and connection, they can also contribute to emotional strain that often remains hidden beneath the surface.

Student athletes may struggle silently with anxiety, burnout, emotional exhaustion, comparison, injury-related identity disruption, and the pressure to appear mentally tough even when struggling internally.

This training explores those emotional realities through a lived-experience lens, helping audiences better understand the psychological and emotional pressures student athletes may experience while offering practical insight into how supportive adults can foster healthier communication, emotional safety, and balance.

Who This Training Is Designed For

This training is especially valuable for student athletes, caregivers, coaches, educators, and youth-serving professionals who want a deeper understanding of the emotional realities many athletes experience beyond performance and achievement.

The session emphasizes emotional recognition, practical support, and lived experience while remaining accessible to broad audiences. Mental health professionals and sports psychologists may also find value in the emotionally grounded and audience-centered perspective explored throughout the training.

What You’ll Learn

  • How pressure, performance expectations, and achievement culture can shape emotional well-being in student athletes
  • Why perfectionism, fear of failure, emotional suppression, and burnout can persist unnoticed for years
  • How identity and self-worth can become deeply tied to athletic success
  • Practical ways adults around athletes can better recognize and support struggling athletes
  • How emotionally supportive communication and healthier expectations can help athletes feel seen beyond performance alone

Key Takeaways

  • Student athletes may experience intense emotional pressure long before adults recognize visible signs of distress.
  • Performance and achievement can become closely tied to identity and self-worth for many athletes.
  • Fear of disappointing others, perfectionism, and emotional suppression can make it difficult for athletes to seek help openly.
  • Emotionally supportive relationships and communication can significantly impact athlete well-being.
  • Understanding the emotional realities behind performance pressure can help adults support student athletes more compassionately and effectively.

Learning Objectives

By the end of this training, viewers should be able to:

  • Recognize emotional and psychological pressures commonly experienced by student athletes
  • Describe how performance expectations may influence identity and emotional well-being
  • Identify ways athletes may internalize or hide emotional distress
  • Explain how a lived experience perspective can deepen understanding of athlete mental health
  • Apply emotionally informed and supportive communication approaches when supporting student athletes

Who Should Watch

This training may be especially valuable for:

  • Student Athletes
  • Parents & Caregivers
  • Coaches & Athletic Leaders
  • Educators & School Professionals
  • School Support Teams
  • Mental Health Professionals (psychologists, psychiatrists, counselors, therapists, social workers, nurses)
  • Sports Psychologists
  • Athletic Staff
  • Youth Program Leaders

Behind the discipline and performance, many student athletes are carrying more than those around them realize.

Watch this on-demand training to gain a deeper understanding of the emotional pressures many athletes face and explore how empathy, communication, and emotionally supportive environments can help create healthier experiences both on and off the field.

Topics Covered During This Training

  • How old were you when you first got involved with athletics?
  • Do you remember feeling pressures around your athletic pursuits as a kid?
  • Can you give us an example or two of what your OCD challenges looked like in high school?
  • How did your parents and early coaches process the “quirky” compulsions they might have been seeing with you?
  • At what point did these OCD challenges start impacting your performance and mental health?
  • By college, you were competing at a very high level. Can you talk about the additional challenges that brought?
  • When were you diagnosed with OCD? How did that come about?
  • What was your first reaction to the diagnosis? Was it comforting to know that there was a name for it? Did it create additional anxiety because of the stigma around it?
  • When you look back, how would you characterize the level of understanding between your clinical support team and your training support team? Was there a mutual understanding of the challenges involved?
  • Did your personal experience inform your decision to become a clinician?
  • Your story involves a diagnosable mental health condition, but not all student athlete mental health concerns do. Can you talk about that distinction?
  • What should we know about resilience as it pertains to student athletes?
  • What does it take to build trust between athletes and training and coaching staff? How important is that trust?
  • Lately, there has been a great focus on stigma around mental health, in general, and certainly for athletes, as well. Is the trend line moving in the right direction?
  • What are some of the challenges that parents face when supporting a student athlete?
  • What do you most want to share with other clinicians about supporting student athletes?
  • Do you find that most college campuses are equipped to address mental health challenges for student athletes?
  • When you look back on your journey, both as an athlete and as a clinician, what is the most important lesson that you have learned?

The information discussed is intended to be educational and should not be used as a substitute for guidance provided by your health care provider. Please consult with your treatment team before making any changes to your care plan.

As a participant in McLean’s Deconstructing Stigma campaign, Cali shares her mental health journey. Read more about Cali’s story.

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